A Few Tips You Can Use To Save Your Relationship

A Few Tips You Can Use To Save Your Relationship


In this article, I'm going to provide you with some
ideas that you should consider when trying to save
your relationship.

These tips can save your relationship as long as you
keep in mind all the various factors I'm about to
mention.

It is not uncommon for individuals in a relationship
to experience negative feelings and emotions. However,
it is how these feelings are dealt with that will
determine the success or failure of a relationship
in the end.

The first thing that you need to do, is consider whether
or not this relationship is worth saving...

...You need to weigh out the pros and cons.

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The truth of the matter is that while almost every
relationship can be saved with some effort, both
individuals MUST agree that they WANT to make it
work.

This is common sense.

If your partner ended things off  and does not want to
opt back in, then I'm afraid there's little that can be
done.

There are many people who remain in a relationship
because they feel morally obligated.

Some are in it for the convenience.

Many people remain in marriages for the sake of the
children.

Unfortunately though, that is not always enough.

To truly save a relationship, both parties need to be
committed to the idea that the relationship is worth
being saved. Both parties.

Once you've decided that your relationship is worth
saving, and both parties are on board with the notion,
you will need to pinpoint the problem, or various
problems, that exist within the relationship. One of the
biggest misconceptions that people in troubled
relationships have, is that they assume that the symptoms
of the problem are the problem itself.

To give you an example, many people wrongly assume that an
affair was the problem that caused their break up. The truth
of the matter is that the affair was actually a symptom of
an even deeper problem within the relationship.

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Lack of intimacy or talking down to one's partner can cause
them to feel neglected or unwanted and this could lead them
to stray. So, where most people would look at this situation
and blame the affair for the break up, the underlying cause
of the affair was the negative verbal communication and lack
of intimacy in the primary relationship.

If these contributing factors are not dealt with in the
correct manner, various other problems could begin to
manifest themselves.

For instance, if you do not deal with the way in which you
speak to your partner, or if you do not deal with the lack of
intimacy, you may be able to keep another affair from happening
by using guilt as a means of behavioural control.

However, this kind of behaviour provides fertile ground for
other problems (for instance pornography or cybersex) to
sprout because the underlying causes for the affair were not
dealt with.

If you focus on, and deal with, the core issues rather than
trying to treat the symptoms, then you can save your
relationship.

Once you have determined what the core problems are, the two
of you can begin to share your thoughts and feelings with one
another. Make sure to verbalise how you feel without getting
angry and to make an effort to listen to your partners concerns.

But remember, you need to stay calm and talk softly.

I would recommend holding your partners hand or placing your
hand on his or her leg while talking, as this physical contact
signals that you want to be near to that person and that you
want to reconnect to that person even if your emotions are all
over the place.

Remember to take long, slow breaths if you feel that you are
starting to get worked up. Staying calm is crucial at this
point as it will allow the two of you a chance to talk about
all the things that are bothering the both of you.

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It is also way easier to reach a compromise when you
are calm.

Think - "CALMpromise!!"

When your partner talks about things that hurt and upset you,
remember that he or she is not doing it because this is fun.
They do not want to hurt you. It's not nice seeing someone you
love hurting so much. Even more so when you know that you
are the one hurting them!

They are doing it because they want to improve the relationship.
The communication rivers need to flow and you have to allow them
too. It's the only way that the underlying issues can be dealt
with properly. Communication.

Once all the problems in your relationship have been detailed,
the two of you need to come up with an action plan to solve them.

Then take concrete action steps towards your action plan.

If the problem was that you were not spending enough time together,
then plan a date night every week where you go to the movies or go
out bowling. Take turns coming up with creative ways to spend time
together once or twice a week. It doesn't have to be complicated or
require much effort, find what works for the both of you.

Compromise. (CALMpromise)

If lack of communication was the problem, and it often times is,
then make an effort to spend 20 minutes with each other(tv off)
in the evening or before going to bed. Again, think simple and
small and take it from there.

In conclusion, you need to realise and accept that saving a
relationship is an ongoing process. There is no quick fix. People are
complex in nature. You are going to go three steps forward only to
take two back. There will be tears and laughter going forward. Some
days will be easier than others.

But, if you both want it to work and you both put in the effort,
you will succeed in repairing  and even strengthening your
relationship.

So there you go. There are a few tips you can use to 
save your relationship, but only if it's worth being saved.

Remember, be quick to apologize and slow to blame.

Advisable Relationship-Mending Tips and Info - Where Do I Start?

So What Do You Recommend I Do?

My first bit of advice, and I will be mentioning this

in future posts too because it is so darn brilliant, is to

get the book – The Magic of Making Up

It is without a doubt one of the best books dealing with
the subject of 'relationship mending' available - anywhere!

It will more than likely be the only book you will
ever need to have, that deals with this subject!

The author explains things very clearly, and in a way
that makes perfect sense to just about anyone that
reads it.

It will give you a different perspective on the
underlying issues you are trying to deal with.

It provides you with information that you will
be able to apply in your current relationship or
your future romances.

It has a ton of awesome, 'satisfied-customer' reviews
that you can take a look through before buying. In fact,
here is a video of testimonials that you can take a look
at to confirm this:




I recommend this book over any other that I have read.

Get it, and you will see why.

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This book is important because it provides
you with a clear, easy to follow plan to prevent
things from spiralling out of control while you
are trying to rectify things with your partner.
(and this can happen so easily!!)

It comes with 2 fantastic BONUSES:

-The Magic Second Chance Letter – already written for you,
and it has worked for so many people that, this could easily be
marketed as a product on its own!

-Clean Slate Method – an effective method of how to make 
an apology that gives you the best chance of being forgiven!

He has also created 2 FREE videos full of great content!


So, if you have just broken up with you partner or are at 
a point in your marriage where the next few decisions 
you need to make are going to be crucial ones, I strongly 
urge you to go and get that book, read through it and take 
the time to absorb what he is telling you.

There is a staggering amount of truth in those pages. 
Knowledge is power and powerful knowledge is even 
more powerful!

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I suggest this as your initial starting point if you want
to achieve your goal of repairing whats left of your 
relationship with your partner!

Good luck and hang in there!

Advisable Relationship Mending Tips and Info - Who, Where, Why?

Who Am I And Why Do I Care?

My name is Jimmy Lynch. I'm 30 years old and I'm like
a gypsy without a caravan.

Hear me out...

I was born in South Africa but at a very early age my
family moved to Botswana.

My dad is an engineer who builds mines for a living.

There is constant mining development taking place in
Africa and as a result of his profession and the high
demand for his skills, we lived in quite a few places
over the years, and that's putting it mildly.

I mean...

...I've moved more times than most escaped convicts!

So from a young age, I had to quickly learn how to adapt
to my surroundings. To be slightly more aware of what's
going on around me.

To read and understand people.

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I was in boarding school for my high-school years and as
a result spent many weekends and holidays with various
friends and their families.

I got to see how people lived.

How different each family was. The way they interacted
with each other. Their morals and values. The crazy
scenarios that play out in each and every household,
mine included.

For some reason, people have always just opened up to me.

Friends and strangers.

I think I have a way of helping to
put things in to perspective that some people find
encouraging and empowering. At school I was always
“unwillingly” helping my buddies with their relationship
problems.

I was quite good at helping them understand
things from their partner's perspective.

That doesn't mean I didn't have my fair share of failed
relationships and ugly break-ups! Meeting the 'right' one
is a journey filled with colourful moments!

I think I just had a way of getting through to them.

Helping them to see through the mist.
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Towards the end of high-school I had developed quite an
interest in people and the ways in which they thought.

When I finished high-school I decided to get my bachelors
degree in psychology...

...I'm NOT saying I'm a psychologist!

I developed an interest in people and in the mind, so I
studied psychology to better understand both. I got my
degree and have since been working as a personal trainer.

A career in totally different field I know, but you'd be
surprised how much my psychology degree comes in
handy when it comes to dealing with my clients!

Being a fitness trainer allows me to interact with people
from all walks of life and financial backgrounds.

Trainers out there will know, that it is very easy to be
sucked into peoples' personal lives. You become the
person they vent too. The one trying to provide them
with a different perspective of looking at things whether
that be diet, time management, social behaviour or
relationship advice, etc...

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Throughout my high school and working career I
witnessed my fair share of friends and their families
arguing and fighting and made my own observations
and mental notes as time went on.

Girlfriend troubles.

Boyfriend troubles.

Parents getting divorced.

Kids having to choose sides.

Happy homes torn in two...

The saddest thing of all is that it is like that in every little
town, every city, every country all over the world! We
have all had this experience in one way or another.

It's an ugly, messy affair...

So Why This Blog?

I have always enjoyed helping people.

To directly affect someone's life in a positive manner,
gives me a great sense of accomplishment!

Knowing that you have done something to make a
person's life easier, even if it's a tiny little thing,
is a very simple yet effective way to feel happy.

I have witnessed first-hand the heartache and immeasurable
sadness that accompanies any break-up be it a marriage or a
relationship of 6, or even 2 months.

My parents got divorced about two years ago and seeing how
my mom still takes strain to this day, helped me on my way
to deciding that I needed to help people that may be going
through similar situations.

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I know and understand what you are going through and I
would like to help you win back the mind, heart and soul
of the one you love!


Is It Too Late?

No, it's not too late to turn things around even if it

feels that way!

There are solutions for some of the toughest
relationship problems out there. You just need
a game-plan, have to want it to work, and then
need to keep a cool, level head when going
about it.

How do so many couples get back together if that is not

the case? For most people, the underlying reasons and

motives as to why their exes should or would take them

back, lie hidden in plain sight.

This blog will be providing you with video clips,
audio clips, tips and advice that you can use to
mend your relationship.

Start by going here:

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The advice that I provide on this blog goes
hand-in-hand with that book.

I sincerely hope you find the information on this
blog useful!

Best Wishes!

Advisable Relationship-Mending Tips And Info - Help Is At Hand!

Welcome to my Relationship-Mending Tips

and Info Blog!

You are probably here because you or someone you know

is at a very critical point in your relationship and ultimately,

your life. You are looking for an effective relationship-

mending solution to resolve the underlying issues at hand

before it's too late.

You suspect the worst and you're looking for information

or reassurance.

You just want things to go back to the way they were.

This is the sad cry of millions of couples out there!

First of all, let me fill you in...

While the aim of this blog is to share some of the highly
advisable relationship-mending tips and info that I have
learnt from others that have walked this dark road and
made it to the other side, as well as through my own
trials and tribulations...

...this blog works in conjunction with the book -
 'The Magic of Making Up' by T Jackson.

The advice that I provide you with in this blog
works very well when part of a complete strategy.

In other words, if you have a clear, holistic action
plan you will more than likely achieve greater results
than if you try to focus on just one of the many facets
that makes up a relationship.

I would, however, like you to know that I am an
affiliate for this specific product, so I do make a small
commision when you purchase this product through
one of the links on this page.

That being said, I will do everything in my
power to help you to get the most out of this
product by providing you with valuable tips
and ideas that you can make use of yourself,
or that you can refer your friends and family
to if they are going through similar troubles.

So feel free to contact me for further advice
whenever the need arises.

Cool stuff....


Get the book and the FREE Bonuses by
clicking the following link:
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It is an excellent book on this topic and the author does
well to help put things in to perspective in a simple,
easy to follow manner. He lays out a clear, easy to follow
plan that will help most couples through their troubled
times.

Not to mention the fantastic videos and FREE bonuses
he provides when you purchase the product:

-The Magic Second Chance Letter – already written for
you, and it has worked for so many people that, this could
easily be marketed as a product on its own!

-Clean Slate Method – an effective method of how to make
an apology that gives you the best chance of being forgiven!


Here's an example of one video:

The relationship-mending tips and advice that I will be
providing you with, will make far more sense and be far
more effective if you follow the strategy that is layed out
in that book!

I have introduced this book to hundreds of people and it
has helped many of them to see the light at the end of
the tunnel!

YOU can be one of those people too! 

I am quite certain that it WILL do the same for you and
help you to obtain the results you are looking to achieve,
as well as improve your knowledge of people skills which
will help you in future relationships should you not be able
to salvage the one you are currently having problems with.

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